WHY ASK? You Already Know The Answer!!!!

Why do we ask questions we already know the answers to?
Why do we put ourselves in situations that will only reveal the gross reality you really DON'T want to know?


Why? Why? Why?


When you ask some questions, you already know the answer! What is that burning desire in the pit of your stomach that drives you to request information that if you didn't know, you'd probably be better off. But wait, thing is - you wouldn't be SURE unless you asked. So in reality (with regards to certain situations), it's a LOSE LOSE situation!!!

This reminds me of a blog I put out there a WHILE back.


Check it out!


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Ain't life a b*tch!
Why do we constantly torture ourselves at times asking and searching for answers to questions we already really know the answers to, but continue to dig for the answers anyway? I mean, do you REALLY want to know what's up with SO-AND-SO?? Yeah - you do, but you really don't - because, quite frankly, you already know! When you call your dude or chicky and he/she says "I'm on the other line. Lemme call you back!" - and you never get a call back that night just for that person to tell you some bullsh*t the next day like "oh, I didn't call you back because I fell asleep." HAHAHAHA - YO...THAT IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST BULLSH*T LINES! How the heck do you fall asleep while you were on the other line? And if you got off the phone and laid your head on the pillow, why wasn't I on your list of people to call back - at least as a courtesy. Okay - I am venting. Breathe in s-l-o-w-l-y.....EXHALE - LOL. Back to the point...Your gut usually tells you what the real deal is so why not just listen to that? If it smells like sh*t, trust me - it IS shit! If the n*gga ain't feeling you, you usually know. If the chick ain't feeling you, you usually know. If your sex has fallen off - uh oh - don't get Maaco b/c they can't help you! LOL. It's just something inside of you that tells you something isn't right. More than likely, that little feeling inside of you is 98% correct. Thing is, we hope to fall within that 2% fallout and make excuses for someone's else's actions, lie to ourselves, and defy our better judgement for the sake of believing in them. If dude was nice in the beginning and now he is a creep, was he always a creep or was he that wolf in the sheep's clothing? If chicky was all goo-goo eyed over you in the beginning and now you are wondering why her eyes don't sparkle when she sees you, did she always think you were the cat's meow or was she that female dog in that nice PUSSYcat's clothing? Connections are cosmic. They are intangible. It's either THERE or NOT THERE. Listen to your gut and either GO FOR IT or MOVE THE F*CK ON! A lot of people go against thier gut at times b/c of the influences of friends and/or family. Unfortunately, a lot of times, going against your gut prolongs the inevitable. But - ya gotta live and learn! If you want a direct answer, ask a direct question. If the answer seems vague and lacks substance, well, urr...ummm....mmmm - you know what's up!!
I am the #1 culprit of torturing myself and not taking my own damn advice. I've been doing it for years upon years. There are times when I feel it is my Achilles Heel. I have found, however, that all of ya'll have done some suspect @ss sh*t at one time or another. I used to think that it was unnatural, however, I have come to realize that it is not. It's just a part of growing and learning. However, this type of behavior lays within an insecurtiy we ALL have within ourselves. Some of us manage it better than others, however, we all have it. I urge you all to do this right now - today - ahora!!! Make a list of all the things you believe are great about yourself. Take some time right now to Big yourself up for a change. Feel good about who you are and what you represent. If there are things you dislike about yourself, then get off your @ss and try to work on them. F*ck those people that are trying to bring you down! If you look good, your hair is tight, your clothes are on point, your smile is radiant, you know how to tie the knot of a cherry with your tongue (wink) - yo...just feel good about yourself because it ALL starts with YOU! For me (personally) - I am my best when I have my "swagger." Sometimes I misplace it. Luckily, I have family and friends that remind me where I lost it.


This blog is all over the place - I know! It's just another one of my random @ss thoughts. In my opinion, everybody is full of sh*t in one way, shape, or form - present company included. It's just a matter of whether my bullsh*t is compatible with yours!


ORIGINAL POST DATE: 7/4/06 & 3/20/07 (YAHOO 360)